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International surrogacy parents speak to the World at One

Tuesday, October 11th, 2011

Parents Michelle and Paul (names changed) spoke to BBC Radio 4′s World at One today about their experiences of international surrogacy, and the problems with surrogacy law in the UK.  Their legal case (in which we represented them successfully) was reported anonymously by the High Court last December (as Re L (a minor) 2010) and received national press coverage at the time.  Michelle and Paul took the brave decision today to speak about their personal experiences, in order to highlight the difficulties they have faced.

As Michelle and Paul explained, they entered into a surrogacy arrangement in Illinois after a very long and difficult journey of failed IVF and miscarriages.  They did so in accordance with the law in Illinois and underwent a thorough vetting process with a clear legal procedure designed to protect all involved.  Under Illinois law, they were treated as the legal parents of their child from the outset. 

However, UK law treated their surrogate and her husband as the legal parents, despite the fact that neither had any biological connection with the child.  Michelle and Paul therefore needed an English High Court order to become Mum and Dad in the UK. 

One of the key issues for the court here to consider was the mismatch between UK and Illinois law regarding the issue of payments  to their surrogate.  In Illinois, payments for a surrogate’s inconvenience and discomfort can legitimately be made, although payments for a child are not allowed.  In the UK, the law refers to ‘reasonable expenses’ (with no definition of what that means) but confusingly also gives the court a specific power to ‘authorise’ other payments.  Ultimately in this case Mr Justice Hedley, noting that Michelle and Paul were the ‘most careful and conscientious of parents’, agreed to authorise the payments so that they could be approved as legal parents.  However, he did not accept that the inconvenience payments to their surrogate were reasonable expenses. 

It’s a story with a happy outcome, but one which shows that working out what is acceptable to pay for surrogacy at home and abroad is tricky. 

In Illinois there is a clear legal framework in which payments are agreed and set out in writing at the outset (following counselling, psychological assessments and legal advice for all).   If everything is done correctly at the outset, then the child is a part of the intended parents’ family throughout.

There is no such certainty under UK law.   Every judge can interpret what is ‘reasonable’ differently, and the issue will only be considered after the birth of the child when the payments have been long since made, by which time there will always be tremendous pressure on the court to make an order protecting the child’s welfare.  As Michelle pointed out so poignantly, the value paid to the surrogate in this case was in fact no more than what has been accepted as being reasonable expenses for surrogacy in the UK, but it was not considered expenses in their case because the arrangement was an international one set up within a different legal framework. 

We are left asking – where the values being paid for surrogacy are comparable, does it make any sense to treat them differently just because they are called compensation rather than expenses, and just because they are agreed in writing at the outset?  Would it not be better to have a more upfront system in the UK which resolves these issues at the start, rather than after the event?  

You can hear the interview at http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b006qptc

There is more information about international surrogacy law on our website.

Adopting babies in the UK is getting more difficult

Thursday, September 29th, 2011

Today’s news about the diminishing numbers of babies being adopted in the UK does not at all surprise us.  The BBC has today reported that only 60 children under one were adopted in the UK last year, of the 3,500 currently in the care system.  This marks a significant drop from the 150 adoptions of children under one completed in 2007.  The drop indicates that the barriers to authorising prospective adopters and to releasing children for adoption seem to be increasing and the process taking longer.  Ann Marie Carrie of Barnado’s has said: “This is a tragedy, it’s a tragedy for the children who are languishing in the care system and frankly it’s a tragedy for those people who have come forward who want to be parents and adopt a child.”

None of this comes as much of a surprise to the many frustrated clients we hear from daily who have considered adoption but instead turned  to surrogacy as a means of building their family.  Again and again we hear that prospective parents have been actively discouraged from pursuing adoption or told that the process will take many years with no certain outcome.  Parents with an existing child are often told they are only eligible to adopt if there is an age gap of several years between siblings, which in practice rules out adoption entirely (depending on the parents ages) given that so few young children are available.  Again and again we hear that couples who are unable to conceive as a result of infertility or other medical problems, and same sex parents wanting to build a family, would love to offer a home to a child who needs it, but find that adoption simply is not an option for them.  Many of these couples go on to be fantastic parents to their own biological children conceived through fertility treatment or surrogacy.  They could have been fantastic adoptive parents to children who desperately need their care.

Natalie Gamble speaks at The Alternative Families Show 17 September

Wednesday, September 21st, 2011

Natalie Gamble was joined by hundreds of prospective parents at the Alternative Families Show in Covent Garden last Saturday where she was a key note speaker.  The event, in its second year, showcased every aspect of conceiving by alternative methods and was tremendously well attended.  Under the banner of the London Women’s Clinic, Natalie outlined the legal implications of surrogacy and donor conception and the numbers attending the talk underline the fact that this is no longer just an option for the few but is now very much in the mainstream of our culture. 

One of the key issues raised was in relation to the need for a parental order and the often complex (and expensive) process that a family may need to undergo when opting for International Surrogacy. Our advice is always to look at your options for pursuing an arrangement in the UK first – it is a myth that surrogacy is illegal here.   Following a domestic arrangement, and assuming that you stick within the criteria, intended parents can expect a relatively straightforward (and inexpensive) parental order process.  In terms of pursuing an international arrangement it is vital to obtain a parental order once back in the UK as both parents will lack ‘parental responsibility’ (and therefore the authority needed to make decisions on behalf of their child here in the UK) and at least one (if not both parents) will lack status as the legal parent.  There is a strict 6 month deadline (beginning on the child’s date of birth) during which a parental order can be applied for and if this is missed intended parents will lose the opportunity for this bespoke legal solution forever.  Getting legal help with this can range from help from behind the scenes all the way to full representation – depending on budget and what you feel comfortable dealing with.   We always recommend that those planning surrogacy get initial advice, as this alone could save you in the long term. 

Another hot topic at the show was in relation to donor and co-parenting agreements where singles/couples/groups are considering the best approach and whether to have something in writing.  Our advice would be that, although not strictly legally binding, agreements are often extremely valuable in the setting up of such arrangements.  They provide an excellent opportunity to air (and hopefully iron out) the underlying issues and intentions of everyone involved.  If a dispute does arise in the future the court may well give any such agreement weight as part of its exercise to establish exactly what everyone’s intentions were at the outset.  In our experience, those that have gone into their donor/co-parenting arrangements carefully and have considered all the possibilities at any early stage, such as through the medium of an agreement, do not encounter significant difficulties later on.

The Alternative Families Show was an outstanding event and we look forward to next year!

Your surrogate will keep the baby, won’t she?

Monday, August 8th, 2011

So many clients tell us that this is the question they are asked when they tell their friends – and even their fertility doctors – that they are considering surrogacy.  Is it true?  Are surrogacy arrangements in the UK very risky, with the surrogate mother holding all the cards and having an absolute right to keep the baby?  Do those who embark on surrogacy arrangements frequently end up with the surrogate mother keeping the child in practice? 

It is certainly a widespread belief, and one which in the globalised world is an important factor which drives people abroad to surrogacy destinations like the USA, the Ukraine and India, where surrogacy arrangements are legally enforceable.

But the reality is that this is in fact incredibly rare in practice.  To date, there have been only two reported cases in UK legal history of the court having to arbitrate between the intended parents and a surrogate mother where a surrogacy agreement has broken down.  In only one of these cases was the surrogate allowed to keep the baby, since the UK courts (far from being obliged to uphold the status of the surrogate mother) in fact have flexible powers to determine what is in the child’s best interests where something does go wrong. 

So why do surrogacy arrangements in the UK so rarely go wrong?  Our experience of working with families in these situations tells us that it is because surrogacy is not entered into by parents or surrogates lightly, but with the benefit of enormous care, thought and respect.  Often with the help and support of long established and experienced agencies like Surrogacy UK and COTS, we find that parents and surrogates invest heavily in building a strong foundation to their relationship, and treat it with significant value. 

The reality of surrogacy in the UK is that arrangements far more often end up in a lifelong friendships than in custody disputes.

There is more information about UK surrogacy law on our website.

The art of baby making

Monday, January 11th, 2010

Deciding that the time is right to build a family is a defining moment in your life. However, unfortunately this is all too often just the start of a long and difficult journey to parenthood, fraught with many potential problems and pitfalls along the way. Whether you are a single gay man or woman or in a relationship, there is a definite art to building a family and making babies.

The problems

For prospective same-sex parents the obvious biological difficulties create major hurdles to overcome in the baby making process. Decisions inevitably have to be made about sourcing anonymous or known donor sperm, donor eggs, surrogacy or the merits of co-parenting. The wrong decision at the outset can lead to all manner of problems further down the line.

Many people are often short of time, lack peace of mind about their choice or feel overwhelmed by the different options for creating a family. Issues of, timing, cost, treatment and general logistics can lead to knee jerk decisions, wasted time and money, legal complications and a lot of heartache.

Take for example John, a successful marketing consultant, who’s always wanted a family of his own and feels the time is right to get started. What are his options as a single gay man? He could adopt, co-parent with a female friend, consider surrogacy in the UK or abroad or get himself a partner with children. However, there is so much to get to grips with in terms of understanding the fertility sector as a whole, knowing the fertility treatment options and tackling the often complex underlying legal issues. John simply doesn’t know where to start and he doesn’t want to mess things up. His concerns often keep him awake at night and are stopping him from taking the plunge.

Solutions

John should be encouraged to know that he isn’t alone in his wish to build a family and there is good quality of advice and information out there if he knows where to look. Once he appreciates the bigger picture and takes more control, family building and baby making becomes easier. So, what are some of the basics John should think about?

Navigating the fertility and parenting sector

John would benefit enormously from a greater understanding of how the law works. John needs to get clear in his own mind whether he wants parental autonomy or whether he would be happy to share parenting and if so the degree of his involvement on a day to day basis.

John then needs to think about the practicalities of achieving his goal. He will need to understand better the wide range of services available in the fertility and parenting sector. These include UK licensed fertility clinics, the issues surrounding informal conception, the role of the not-for-profit organisations in the UK including Infertility Network UK, Donor Conception Network, COTS, Surrogacy UK, the British Association for Adoption and Fostering (BAAF), the framework surrounding fertility treatment in the UK and options if he were to build a family abroad.

If John decides that conception is the way to go, understanding the basic different fertility treatment options is key. It may be stating the obvious, but no one is born knowing the difference between IVF, IUI, ICSI, straight or host surrogacy, and it makes sense to take a little time to explore these at the outset. This can help John to gather more information and medical help and support with better efficiency.

Underlying legal issues

John shouldn’t be fooled into thinking that everything will be straightforward legally. Building a family through assisted conception often creates a legal minefield. The law isn’t always logical and he really does need to understand the legal basics, including legal parenthood, parental responsibility, issues of citizenship and the importance of family-proofing his Will.

Having a family is no longer the preserve of straight couples. Time have changed and with recent improvements to the law there are now more options than ever to build a family and become a parent. You just need to know how to go about it in the right way.

For more information on our family building service see our website.

Stonewall publishes guide to the new laws on gay parenting

Thursday, December 10th, 2009

We have worked with leading gay rights organisation Stonewall to produce a guide to the new laws on gay and lesbian parenting, called Parenthood for Same Sex Couples. Funded by the Big Lottery Fund, the guide aims to provide clear information to service providers about the law on same sex conception and parenting, including donor insemination (and the new legal rights for lesbian couples to be named on birth certificates), co-parenting arrangements, and UK and international surrogacy for gay men. The guide will be distributed to key service providers nationally (including law centres) and is available on the Stonewall website.

We are delighted to have helped with this project, as we think it is vitally important for there to be good and widespread understanding of the UK’s new fertility laws which rightly recognise gay and lesbian couples as parents of children they conceive together.

Read ‘Parenthood for Same Sex Couples’.

More information on gay surrogacy law from our website.

More information on donor insemination and co-parenting law from our website.

More information about our public service work and fertility law services to charities.

Evening Standard highlights the lack of maternity leave for mothers in surrogacy situations

Friday, October 30th, 2009

The London Evening Standard has covered the lack of rights to maternity leave for mothers who have a child through surrogacy, and Natalie Gamble is quoted extensively (read the Evening Standard article ‘Women who use surrogates in fight to claim maternity leave’). This is just one of the problems with surrogacy law which we are seeking to bring to the government’s attention as part of the Department of Health’s current consultation on changes to surrogacy law. See our Why Surrogacy Law Needs Reviewing page for more information.

Government bows to pressure on embryo storage rules

Wednesday, September 9th, 2009

We welcome the Department of Health’s announcement today that embryos which exceed their five year storage period before 1 October 2009 will not now have to be destroyed (article in the Times today).

We have been in contact with the Department of Health on this issue for some time, arguing the case for various couples who are fighting to save their embryos because they were stored too early to benefit from new rules coming into force on 1 October. These couples include Melanie and Robert Gladwin from Gloucester, who stored embryos in anticipation of Melanie’s treatment for cancer in 2003 in order to preserve their chance of having a family, but who were told their embryos would be allowed to perish because their storage period expires before 1 October. Robert and Melanie’s story was reported in the Daily Telegraph on 7 August and is covered again today in response to the government’s announcement. Robert and Melanie, who have been fighting to save their embryos, have won political support for their campaign and yesterday were invited to present a petition at 10 Downing Street. They are not the only couple to fall into this gap in the law. Michelle Hickman has also been a vocal campaigner on this issue for several years, and there may be many other couples who are affected.

In response to today’s decision that such ‘out of time’ embryos can now be stored for at least ten years, Melanie Gladwin has said: “We are ecstatic at the news from the Department of Health. It has been a tiresome and stressful time and are extremely thankful they have been able to consider our case so promptly. We eagerly await further news that we can keep our embryos for the full period. We hope this announcement brings joy to the other couples and families affected like us.”

Natalie Gamble, representing Robert and Melanie, says: “While the announcement today gives much needed hope to men and women whose precious embryos have already reached the end of their five year storage term, we need to make sure that the proposed changes go far enough to give the time needed. For young women who suffer infertility prematurely, these embryos in storage often represent their last chance of having a child of their own. We will be looking very closely at the proposals to confirm that couples like Robert and Melanie will be able to extend their chance of having a much-wanted child for as long as possible, and not just for a few more years.”

Further note to this blog on 11 September 2009:

We are also now delighted to report that the Department of Health has now confirmed that, after the publication of the Minister’s Order, additional special regulations will be made to ensure that ‘out of time’ embryos like Robert and Melanie’s will be able to be stored, not just for ten years, but for the full extended period normally allowed for these kinds of medical situations.

More information on embryo storage law is on our website.

21st Century Surrogacy in the UK: bust or boom?

Friday, May 29th, 2009

There is no denying that the demand for surrogacy is rising. It is no longer the taboo subject it once was, with India and certain US states widely reported as surrogacy “hotspots” and high profile celebrities, such as Sarah Jessica Parker, having embraced surrogacy. Restrictive laws in the UK are driving increasing numbers of British people abroad for surrogacy and many are unwittingly falling foul of English law as a result with serious consequences. The middle ground, which England adopted decades ago to deal with small numbers of altruistic surrogacy arrangements, can no longer cope with the realities of widely available foreign commercial surrogacy. English surrogacy law is now demonstrably inadequate.

The question is what should be done about it? The problem is complex and it raises difficult ethical issues.

One of the most basic objectives of English surrogacy law has been to restrict the payment of more than reasonable expenses to surrogate mothers, reflecting concerns about the exploitation of surrogate mothers, commodification of surrogate-born children and contravention of social beliefs that, just as body parts cannot be sold, neither should such intimate services.

Existing surrogacy law was also made to reflect the sanctity of marriage and in the belief that no mother should be forced to hand over a baby to whom she has given birth. As a result English law states that the surrogate mother is always the legal mother of the surrogate born child (even if the commissioning mother’s or donor eggs have been used) and that the surrogate’s husband is always the legal father unless it can be shown he did not consent to the surrogacy arrangement (which is rare in practice).

The net legal result is that British couples conceiving abroad using a married surrogate (and most surrogates tend to be married as they are deemed to be more stable and secure) have no legal connection with their surrogate-born child. The legal parents are the surrogate mother and her husband. The commissioning parents have no right to care for the child in the UK, may fall foul of immigration law and entry clearance provisions and cannot confer British citizenship. To make matters worse, they are likely to have paid more than reasonable expenses if their payments to the surrogate mother contained any element of a “reward”. The reward element then requires close judicial scrutiny and authorisation as part of a complex parental order application to reassign legal parenthood from the surrogate parents to the commissioning parents and resolve the legal problems.

Solution

The long term solution must be changes in the law. This needs joined up thinking to take into account other legislation (most notably immigration and children law). But inevitably, there will be no quick fix, leaving increasing numbers of people in a legal minefield.

Legislative change requires public debate and the government should consider commissioning an up to date in-depth report on surrogacy. The government last commissioned such a report in 1997 (The Brazier Report) although no action was ever taken to implement its recommendations. Surrogacy needs to be revisited and examined from the perspective of life as it is now – with ready access to the internet and more accessible fertility treatment worldwide. Difficult ethical and moral questions need examination and this is a challenging exercise requiring the best minds and a cross section of society.

In the meantime, there needs to be better access to good quality information about surrogacy and the legal implications. At present, all too often people discover the legal difficulties after conception or birth and are then caught like rabbits in a headlight. Fertility clinics, public bodies, not for profit institutions and lawyers need to do more to communicate the issues effectively to those contemplating or undergoing surrogacy.

The issue of commercial payments needs careful review. Is it right or fair and reasonable to continue to prohibit commercial surrogacy? The current middle ground approach, which allows the authorisation of commercial payments by a judge after the event, is a costly, lengthy and cumbersome way of dealing with matters on a case by case basis. Commercial surrogacy is a ticking time-bomb and one that looks set to explode.

The issue of legal parenthood needs re-examination. Should a surrogate mother’s husband be treated as legal father (even where he has no biological connection)? If not, this may be one way of short-circuiting some of the practical issues associated with foreign surrogacy, affording the commissioning parents some legal rights and responsibilities for their surrogate child automatically from birth. However, it would not protect and resolve the commissioning mother’s legal position, leaving her without any legal status for the child and arguably not in her or the surrogate-born child’s best interests longer term.

Assessment of different ways of resolving the legal issues surrounding surrogacy issues, to include the possibility of pre-birth orders may also be useful. Commissioning parents crave greater certainty because surrogacy contracts are unenforceable under English law and because the surrogate parents currently have an absolute veto and can prevent the making of a parental order if they so chose. The removal of the non extendable six month deadline for application for a parental order should also be considered.

Practically speaking, it is no longer an option to leave the issue of surrogacy in abeyance. Surrogacy laws and practice need to be reviewed as a matter of urgency. The foreign surrogacy industry is booming and the foundations upon which English surrogacy law were made look set to bust at any moment.

More information from our website about international surrogacy law.

 

Natalie Gamble warns of the legal problems of foreign surrogacy in today’s Evening Standard

Friday, May 29th, 2009

Today’s Evening Standard has highlighted the potential legal minefield for British parents of foreign-born surrogate children. Following extensive coverage of the boom in Indian surrogacy earlier in the week (and the leading case of Re X and Y which was the first English case to explore the legal problems for British couples who go abroad for surrogacy), today’s Evening Standard article, which quotes Natalie Gamble as a leading fertility law expert, focuses on the legal problems and the urgent need for a review of the law in the UK. Read the Evening Standard article ‘Parents who hire foreign surrogates risk losing children’.

More on international surrogacy law and the problems with current surrogacy laws from our website.